The Search for the Perfect Guy
First I'd like to say how much I appreciate those of you who posted messages on my blog. If it weren't for y'all, I wouldn't be doing this one now! Okay, now that I have had my first blog posted for about seven hours, I now consider myself an expert at blogging. At this point in my blogging life I am prepared to "blog" into the really deep stuff. Are y'all ready? Here goes. And the subject is... The Search for the Perfect Guy. Well, now I've said it. Sorry if I gave some of y'all a heart attack. :)
You see, across space and time, girls young and old have been searching for him. After searching far and wide, some of us have managed to find success, but a great many of us are still wondering if he will ever appear.
I would like to make a quick mention here about "the search." You know, it's wonderful and a lot of fun to be on the lookout for that special someone, but ladies, let's not allow this search to distract us from the here and now. We need to keep living our lives and be content with what we have. Almost all of us who find ourselves unattatched are waiting for, you know, him. Just remember that it is NEVER too late for that dream guy to come walking into your life! Whether you're 16 or 116 if it's meant to be, it will happen. Whatever you do, don't ever give up hope, ladies! Just keep on praying and hoping!
Now, a few words on my perfect guy! (I already posted this on a chat board, but for those of you who haven't read it, here it is again)
In today's world where men's and women's roles are so often confused or totally switched from how they used to be, I really want a guy who takes the traditional male role: the leader who will work the job, earn the money, and take care of his family, while I watch the kids, fix dinner, and be completely supportive to my husband. I also kind of like the quiet guys. I don't know why but I always have! My perfect guy will also have to have a great sense of humor and be a Christian above all else.
I'd love to hear your thoughts, ladies, on your search for the perfect guy, and for all you guys out there, all of your comments are welcome, as well. I hope y'all enjoy this blog! :)
6 Comments:
You got that so write. You should check out this blog. http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=childofwisdom It is written my a good friend of mine. I think that you would like what he writes. I am almost 19. I have never dated and do not plan to. I am content where I am and I wait on God's plan.
I look forward to reading more of your entries.
Ivy
By schex, Mar 09 06 10:11 PM
Wow, I can't believe how alike you gals are to me!! I'm 16, never dated, and also don't plan to. I'm not looking for anyone yet, of course. :) I'm waiting for God's timing, and I totally agree with your view of the man and woman's roles!! Ivy, I'm adding you to my list of "Blog friends."
By stonewallfan, Mar 09 06 10:42 PM
I just thought of something else y'all might enjoy. If y'all have never read the book I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris, you might want to. I'll tell you up front, though, that the book is definitely not for everybody, and I don't have quite as conservative ideas as the author does on dating, but he does make some excellent points and it's a great book overall.
By jayleighjess, Mar 09 06 10:46 PM
Have you read the sequel, "Boy Meets Girl?" I've skimmed it but I want to read all of it, as well as "I Kissed Dating Good-bye."
By stonewallfan, Mar 10 06 9:22 AM
I never have read the sequel, but I would like to. My friend read both the books and loved them, though. My friend has actually been talking to this guy who has also read the books. They both like eachother a lot, but they're only high school seniors and know they aren't even close to being ready for marriage. So they are remaining friends for now with the idea that if God wants them to be married someday, He will make it happen. If that is not God's plan for them, they will still be good friends with no hard feelings whatsoever. Now that's a good relationship!
By jayleighjess, Mar 10 06 1:20 PM
I have read "I Kissed Dating Goodbye." I thought that it was a very good book. I would recomend it to everyone!
Ivy
By schex, Mar 10 06 6:11 PM