Ok, so there is this guy I like, but my friend likes him too. She is kind of obsessed with him. He kind of likes me, what should I do? What would you do if you were me?
posted by ambohn at Aug 04 07,
12:58 PM
3 comments
3 Comments:
That's one of the hardest situations to be in. I've been there myself. What I did was talked it over the my guy friend, and found out how he felt about it. As long as you both know how your 'girlfriend' may take this and are prepared for something possibly to come, go for it. Its really up to you and the guy. Just be careful about all aspects of what can happen. It's tedious, but can be done. Hope I helped.
OK....just tell her it's the best thing! you can get it of your chest by just telling her!i would have told her! if he likes you then just be cool. your friend will be mad but she will soonly forget about it! ive been there! he still likes me but i like him back and he knows that and we maybe girlfriend and boyfriend oneday. sooo bye!
I am you. I have been in that EXACT same problem. Just shrug it off. It's been 5 months for me, and it hasn't changed. The guy won't stop the problem. Unless he ask you out (or to go 'steady') he won't change it.
(Wait for cut his hair- or have him cut his hair- that worked for about a week for me.)
No, seriuosly, let both crushes run there own course.
And if her friend is literally head over heels, I don't know what to tell you there. (Boy crazy friends are the worst to deal with.) But DO NOT end the friendship over this! I reapeat- DO NOT end the friendship over this.
No matter how much either of you like the guy, I don't think it's worth it!
3 Comments:
That's one of the hardest situations to be in. I've been there myself. What I did was talked it over the my guy friend, and found out how he felt about it. As long as you both know how your 'girlfriend' may take this and are prepared for something possibly to come, go for it. Its really up to you and the guy. Just be careful about all aspects of what can happen. It's tedious, but can be done. Hope I helped.
By gonehorsey101, Aug 04 07 9:11 PM
OK....just tell her it's the best thing! you can get it of your chest by just telling her!i would have told her! if he likes you then just be cool. your friend will be mad but she will soonly forget about it! ive been there! he still likes me but i like him back and he knows that and we maybe girlfriend and boyfriend oneday. sooo bye!
By goldenjanet, Aug 07 07 5:45 PM
I am you. I have been in that EXACT same problem. Just shrug it off. It's been 5 months for me, and it hasn't changed. The guy won't stop the problem. Unless he ask you out (or to go 'steady') he won't change it.
(Wait for cut his hair- or have him cut his hair- that worked for about a week for me.)
No, seriuosly, let both crushes run there own course.
And if her friend is literally head over heels, I don't know what to tell you there. (Boy crazy friends are the worst to deal with.) But DO NOT end the friendship over this! I reapeat- DO NOT end the friendship over this.
No matter how much either of you like the guy, I don't think it's worth it!
By feel_the_rain, Aug 25 07 11:30 PM