A sad week
Those of you who read my blog know my daughter graduated high school two weeks ago. She was one of about 250 grads. She had many friends but like all teenagers she was especially connected to a smaller group of very close friends most of whom were either in drama or band, her two loves. A month or so ago she was the costume person for the play beauty and the beast it was a position that required many hours and lots of patience, she enjoyed it immensely. The young man who played the beast was a giant of a boy, well over 200 pounds and strong as an ox. He was also the one who brought joy everyday to the school and the cast. Always smiling always cheerful. He was an accomplished drummer for the band and his Church's choir. Last Monday he was killed in a four wheeler mishap while working as a volunteer at a church camp. His classmates were and still are devastated. The funeral was yesterday. It was held at the high school performing arts theatre as so many people attended that there was no church large enough to contain all who wanted to pay their final respects. It was an unusual funeral as two cadences were played by his high school band drum line which he had been a proud member of, and a song was sang by the genesians, the drama group that he and my daughter belonged .Such a sad day and my heart aches for his parents who of course are crushed with grief. I am sorry to tell such a sad thing but it is laying heavy on my heart and I needed to talk about it.

4 Comments:
I am so sorry to here about this Garry. He must have been a wonderful, wonderful boy. Four wheelers can be a lot of fun, but they are also dangerous. My kids had them when they were growing up. They still have them but the restrictions on where you can ride them in California has become very strict.
Try to have a happy fathers day Gary, and know that you are a great dad.
By honeybee4, Jun 21 09 9:01 AM
A loss like this is beyond comprehension. I can't imagine that there's much comfort for his parents, but having hundreds of people come to the service may have helped a little.
Yes, I remember the sheer joy of the play, how thrilled Julie was to be costume person for this, and how proud you were of her. I'm sure you were proud all over again when she joined in the song for her friend.
Love to all of you. Come back and talk some more if it helps.
By lesley153, Jun 21 09 1:35 PM
Garry, I'm so sorry to hear about this. It devastates me to read about such a young life filled with promise and potential that will never be realized. You, your daughter, and this young man's friends and family are in my thoughts and prayers.
By cag1970, Jun 23 09 9:02 PM
Thanks for the kind words, they do help.
By garrysouders, Jun 24 09 6:16 AM