Men are from Mars...
HER DIARY:
Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird.
We had made plans to meet at a bar to have a drink. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it.
Conversation wasn't flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he didn't say much. I asked him what was wrong; he said, 'Nothing.' I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn't upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it. On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say, 'I love you, too.'
When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and absent.
Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. To my surprise, he responded to my caress, and we made love. But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep - I cried.
I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.
HIS DIARY:
Harley wouldn't start today, but at least I got laid.
8 Comments:
Ouch
By garrysouders, Jun 06 09 12:40 AM
You know perfectly well, that MOST men don't have much to say. So, let it go. Did you have fun? I'm thinking...probably. So, let's not make a big deal, out of the fact that HE doesn't say much. What's new?
Since we're on the subject, did you wake him, and "talk about it?" I hope not...:)
By veronikkamarrz, Jun 06 09 1:21 AM
Um, I don't think it's really about PDAZ and partner veronikka. :)
Yup, men are uncomplicated.
At the moment, all my son's worries can be fixed with a chocolate biscuit and a cuddle from the cat. Nothing will replace his cat, but I'm sure that he'll find something he likes better than chocolate biscuits one day.
By Jabberwok, Jun 06 09 11:59 AM
No, I don't think it's autobiographical either. It's an oldie - and rather a good one. :)
Sorry, Garry. ((((()))))
By lesley153, Jun 06 09 1:25 PM
Jabberwok, NOTHING is better than a chocolate biscuit.
Except maybe a cat. ;)
And if that had been a true story from PDAZ, trust me Veronikka, it would say "ex". :)
By flopsymopsy, Jun 06 09 2:58 PM
I get it, I get it! A little dense, I admit! I guess I scrolled right by the: "His Diary" part...Jeeze, I feel dumb. I was so sorry for PDAZ, hummm.
By veronikkamarrz, Jun 06 09 6:07 PM
LOL How Very Male that is! ;)
Jabberwok - I Have a friend who is 'minding' her son's cat while he's at Uni in Sydney - it actually appears to have adopted her husband....so it has someone to fight with! :D
And I agree Flopsy - cats and critters may come and go - chocolate is So Reliable - It's Always There! :)
By MarchHare007, Jun 08 09 7:32 PM
Umm...sounds like you might have had a Long Day, Veronikka.
Chocolate? :)
By MarchHare007, Jun 08 09 7:34 PM