#193757 - Wed Sep 17 2003 06:03 AM
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Registered: Thu Sep 30 1999
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Loc: Fanling Hong Kong
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That's lovely Tryst.
I didn't write this one , but I love it and find it apt really.
DEATH IS NOTHING AT ALL
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Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away into the next room
I am I, and you are you,
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
in this easy way you always used.
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes,
we always enjoyed together,
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort,
without the ghost of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was,
There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
What is death but a negligent accident.
Why should I be out of mind,
because I am out of sight.
I am just waiting for you,
somewhere very near...
Just around the corner...
All is well."
.Henry Scott Holland..................
Edited by ren33 (Wed Sep 17 2003 06:11 AM)
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#193758 - Wed Sep 17 2003 06:32 AM
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Pure Diamond
Registered: Fri May 18 2001
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Loc: Canton, Ohio USA
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Kelly, you're Dad helped build a city here and he did a terrific job. I hope the next few days are not too difficult for you and your family.
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#193759 - Wed Sep 17 2003 06:32 AM
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Registered: Thu Sep 30 1999
Posts: 5455
Loc: Davison Michigan USA
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A lot of you might not know this but through conversations with Gun we discovered that we were both members of the Masonic Fraternity in fact both of us were Worshipful Masters of our respective Lodges in 1980. When a brother passes on if the family requests the brothers lodge will conduct a Masonic service, the following is from that service:
Soft and safe to, my Brother, be your earthly bed. Bright and glorious be your rising from it. Fragrant be the acacia's bloom which there shall flourish. May the earliest buds of spring unfold their beauties o'er your resting place, and there may the fragrance of summer's latest rose linger longest. Through the cold blasts of autumn may lay them in dust, and, for a time, destroy the loveliness of their existence, yet the destruction is not final and in spring time, they shall surely bloom again. So, in the morning of the world's resurrection, your mortal frame, now laid low in the dust by the chilling blasts of death, shall spring again into newness of life and unfold in immortal beauties in realms beyond the skies. Until then dear brother, fare thee well.
Gilly
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#193760 - Wed Sep 17 2003 06:38 AM
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Pure Diamond
Registered: Fri May 18 2001
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Loc: Canton, Ohio USA
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Yikes, Gilly! That was beautiful!
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#193761 - Wed Sep 17 2003 07:01 AM
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Registered: Sat Mar 03 2001
Posts: 571
Loc: Sykesville Maryland USA
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I'm so saddened to hear this news.
My deepest sympathies to Gunslinger's family.
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#193762 - Wed Sep 17 2003 07:34 AM
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We never met but I respected him greatly. I would like to echo the sentiments of all that has been said here. Very sad news.
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#193763 - Wed Sep 17 2003 07:42 AM
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Registered: Sun Sep 09 2001
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Loc: South Philadelphia PA USA
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I was totally shocked and beyond words when I heard about Gun. Although I had never had the opportunity to meet him, he was an outstanding man and a person of great influence on many people, he will be missed greatly. My sympathies to his family and friends. We have lost a great man.
--------- Agnes (JTJ)
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#193764 - Wed Sep 17 2003 07:43 AM
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Gunslinger was always a very helpful and polite man
My condolences to his family
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#193765 - Wed Sep 17 2003 07:58 AM
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Registered: Sun Sep 30 2001
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Loc: Norwich England UK
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My sincere condolences to Larrys family and friends.
Kelly, you can be proud of the legacy your Dad left here at FT.
Sleep well Gunslinger.
wez
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#193766 - Wed Sep 17 2003 08:23 AM
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Multiloquent
Registered: Sun Nov 07 1999
Posts: 3643
Loc: Morrisville North Carolina USA
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My dad was a pilot, and a bona-fide hero. I did not know this before yesterday. I was cleaning out his closet and found all his service medals. Most of you may not know what there were, or what they were for, but they are a very impressive array.
Distinguished Flying Cross Bronze Star with a V for Valor Purple Heart Air Medal - 4 Awards Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal Good Conduct Medal
He was a US Army Master Aviator Jump Qualified with 1 combat jump
This was my dad's favorite poem. We are printing up prayer cards to give out at the service. I wanted to post it here to share with all of you.
High Flight
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of earth And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings; Sunward I've climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth Of sun-split clouds - and done a hundred things You have not dreamed of - wheeled and soared and swung High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung My eager craft through footless halls of air. Up, up the long delirious, burning blue, I've topped the windswept heights with easy grace Where never lark, or even eagle flew - And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod The high unsurpassed sanctity of space, Put out my hand and touched the face of God.
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#193767 - Wed Sep 17 2003 08:41 AM
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Registered: Thu Sep 30 1999
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Loc: Munchkinland
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We always knew he was something truly special, Silver, but what you've told us proves it all that much more. He was such an incredible person in so many ways.
You are so sweet to share your discovery with us. He really was a remarkable man.
And, that poem is beautiful. It's not often that you get to read all of it. Thanks for sharing it with us. I think it's wonderful that you're putting that on the cards.
I'm so glad to see you here, Silver. Thank you for coming here to help us in our grief and for allowing us to help you with yours.
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#193768 - Wed Sep 17 2003 09:12 AM
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Multiloquent
Registered: Tue Apr 15 2003
Posts: 3325
Loc: Boca Raton Florida USA
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Kelly, it is obvious from the outpouring of emotion that your dad was a well liked and respected man. And I think the discovery in your closet goes to prove that even more. Like Ren said in her poem (and hats off to Tryst, Gatsby, and everyone else that took the time to write such beautiful things) that death is not an ending, but a beginning much like when a catepillar turns into a butterfly. He has now speard his wings like the ones he enjoyed in that poem and is flying high! May he rest in peace and enjoy the wonderful afterlife!
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#193769 - Wed Sep 17 2003 09:14 AM
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Registered: Fri May 18 2001
Posts: 116415
Loc: Canton, Ohio USA
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I'm crying now, Silver! Awesome poem. This has not been the greatest day, has it?
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#193770 - Wed Sep 17 2003 09:35 AM
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Mainstay
Registered: Sat Mar 03 2001
Posts: 571
Loc: Sykesville Maryland USA
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Thank you Silver for sharing that. Your dad was a very special man indeed. Far better than most it appears. I wish there were more I could say or do. You have my deepest sympathies.
Jim
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#193771 - Wed Sep 17 2003 09:48 AM
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Registered: Sun Sep 09 2001
Posts: 5400
Loc: South Philadelphia PA USA
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Kelly,
The only thing that I can add is that that poem is just like your dad was...truly remarkable. Have no doubt that the poem brings us that much closer to knowing exactly the type of man he was..warm, loving, gentle and kind.
Rest in peace, Gun...I have no doubt that you will have the largest pair of wings ever to bee seen.
------------- Agnes (JTJ)
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#193772 - Wed Sep 17 2003 09:52 AM
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Multiloquent
Registered: Mon Dec 06 1999
Posts: 2742
Loc: Wyoming USA Way Out West
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I was stunned to hear of Larry's death. He sent me an e-mail Sunday and I thought that the old Gunslinger was back after his hospital stay.
I had never met him face to face and I don't know what he looked like, but I gained respect for him over the years of posting here. We shared a lot of thoughts and exchanged e-mail addresses for off-line bantering.
His "tag line" on his posts was, for awhile, a quote from the High Flight poem. I asked him if he could send me the author's name; he sent the full poem, by John Gillespie Magee, Jr., with a short history of Magee's life.
Gun lived in Somerville, New Jersey. In 1961 my daughter was born in Somerville when I was stationed at an Air Force radar station. I might have spoken to him in town and never knew that we would 'meet' again.
Gunslinger used a screen image of an F-100 fighter aircraft flying away from the camera, into a beautiful sunset. This is how I'll remember him, flying into a sunset.
God bless and keep you, Larry. My condolences to his family.
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#193773 - Wed Sep 17 2003 11:06 AM
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Explorer
Registered: Tue Jul 09 2002
Posts: 83
Loc: Missouri USA
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Gunslinger was very nice to me back in the day. We very rarely agreed on anything, but he had my respect. I am truly sadden by this. His family and all of his friends, online and otherwise, are in my thoughts. Sincerely, Callie (originalcallie)
Edited by Cahyay (Thu Sep 18 2003 07:44 PM)
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#193774 - Wed Sep 17 2003 03:39 PM
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Registered: Fri Feb 18 2000
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Loc: Victoria BC Canada
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Just want to add my sincerest condolences to Silver Moonsong and the rest of Gunslinger's family and friends. From reading these posts I see that he was a very special man.
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#193775 - Wed Sep 17 2003 04:22 PM
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On behalf on myself and several former members of this site, we would like to express our condolences and extend our sympathies during this difficult time. We hope you find comfort in the memories that you have of him and know that he will always be in your hearts.
Keeping you in our thoughts,
anniedt, Fort, Haxson, JoJo, Leprechaun, Phellan, Sand, Scibug, splatt123, Tangledrose, Val9000, and Wooldog
Edited to add additional names to the list.
Edited by splatt1234 (Fri Sep 19 2003 03:12 PM)
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#193776 - Wed Sep 17 2003 04:56 PM
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Learning the ropes...
Registered: Wed Sep 17 2003
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Loc: British Columbia Canada
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As a former member of FT, I also wish to express my sincere condolences to Gun's family and his family of friends at FunTrivia.
I know he was an integral part of FT and he will be missed by all of you.
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#193777 - Wed Sep 17 2003 08:07 PM
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Registered: Mon Apr 22 2002
Posts: 4057
Loc: Western Australia
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Kelly, I posted the following message in the Editor's Forum yesterday but since you probably don't have access to that, I am reproducing it here. As you can see by the many posts, your father was highly respected, greatly loved and will be missed by people all over the world.
"I didn't know Gunslinger very well but he was very helpful to me when I first became an editor. I am so sorry to hear this news and would like to pass on my condolences to his loved ones. He will be greatly missed."
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#193778 - Wed Sep 17 2003 08:52 PM
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Multiloquent
Registered: Sun Nov 07 1999
Posts: 3643
Loc: Morrisville North Carolina USA
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Thanks, MamaGoose. I don't have access to the editor's forum. Is it possible for someone to either email me those or maybe allow me temp access to read those? I would like to see them.
I hope you all realize just how much a part of his life you all were. His memorial would not be comlpete without FunTrivia. I know of one member coming up from Philadelphia. I hope a few more might be able to make it. If anyone else is in the Philly area, maybe you guys could get together and car pool. I would love to see you all.
I was thinking of printing up all the comments and putting them out for the Memorial Service. I have all his medals, his Bachelor's degree, some really great pictures, a wonderful large picture of him with his police buddies from 1961... I have his retired police badge... all of these will be placed around the room for the service. Any remembrances from you guys would be a wonderful addition for people to see.
You can post them here or send them to me in a PM.
Thanks
Kelly
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#193779 - Wed Sep 17 2003 09:02 PM
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Mainstay
Registered: Sat Apr 05 2003
Posts: 659
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My condolences and thoughts go out to his family and friends. It's sad to read of this tragic loss. Though we never crossed paths in the short time I've been here, it's apparent from what I've read that Gunslinger contributed much of his time and himself to making this a great second home for many of us. Making others happy- that's what it's all about. RIP, Larry.
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#193780 - Wed Sep 17 2003 10:25 PM
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Registered: Tue Apr 30 2002
Posts: 2216
Loc: Pasadena California USA
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Gunslinger banned my IPS#(not sure if that is right) which was the same as some foul mouthed teen. It took me weeks to convince him I was a 42 year old woman (with the help of Mak and Cool). When he was convinced he sent me a nice apology note what a class act.
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#193781 - Thu Sep 18 2003 05:49 AM
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It is most moving to me to see the contributions of ex members of FT to this thread. I think that is much appreciated by many of us.
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#193783 - Thu Sep 18 2003 07:33 AM
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Quote:
>>posted by ren33: It is most moving to me to see the contributions of ex members of FT to this thread. I think that is much appreciated by many of us.
I would like to echo those sentiments.
I'd also like to echo those sentiments. It means a lot to see the messages that you are posting in here. It is very much appreciated by many of us. Thank you, everyone.
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#193785 - Thu Sep 18 2003 09:16 AM
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Registered: Sun Jul 16 2000
Posts: 723
Loc: Rochester New York USA
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Very sorry to hear of Gunslinger's passing. When I was a newbie here he helped me straighten out a password problem (I was registered but my password wouldn't work). It's always nice to deal with a class act like he was.
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