I have seen a quite a few questions about who's dating or flirting with who, or whether your crush is already in a relationship, and I would like to help you find out. Not only that, you can find advice about whether the person your interested in likes you back, top flirting tips and how to deal with a broken heart, from me and the viewers!

A Simple but Important piece of Advice: Think your falling in love with another member of this site? Remember, they might not be who you think they are. You might think they're a female, youngish, but they might be a bold headed, 60 year old man so be careful! Try to get to know them as a friend first and don't ask them personal questions straight away. Don't be offended if they aren't interested. Remember: They might be happily married with children. Just have fun and enjoy the website!

If you have any questions, advice or you just want to talk then your welcome. Don't feel embaressed, you don't need to mention any names.

I am a 55 year old divorcee, what qualifications do you feel that you have to advise me? Perhaps you are misunderstanding these forums, they are not aimed at teenagers, we have members of all ages and all nationalities. Advice for teenagers with relationship problems doesn't feature highly here, there are plenty of other sites on the Internet where people might be interested in flirting etc so we will pass on that, thank you.

Well said Sue. Someone's first post on this site and they think they are the be all and end all!!

I'm a "bold" headed male, over 60, happily married, with children -- thank you -- and wouldn't even consider asking for or offering such personal advice. The poster's name "LuckyHunter" gives me the shivers.

This reads like a 'form post' that's been sent to several sites at once. And just who ARE the 'viewers'? Sounds like he thinks we're on the telly!

The only "crushes" threads that come to mind are the about your 80's crush - music, television and movie stars, and the one about whether your former star crushes still make your heart pitter patter!

Somehow, I doubt ANY of our members are here looking for love anyway.

Speak for yourself babymoo, anyone fancy a short, fat white-haired 55 year old divorcee with a couple of cats?

Sorry Sue

Okay, I doubt MOST of our members are here looking for love.

Not since November, time flies! Flowers, or the thought of one, much appreciated, thank you.

Note to site members: Lucky Hunter was an uncredited co-author of "Elements of Style" along with Strunk and White.

Shame about the cat's Sue, quite fancied you till then (still love you though!).

Another "Bold"male , and the kids (youngest 22) take absolutely no notice of what I say - so I'll also refrain from giving any advice on the matters of love to the young.

MsBatt - why think it's a HE? (it could be a She or a Them!)

Ah, Fosse, I'm just clinging to the rules of English I was taught as a wee lass---when the sex of an individual is unknown, the male pronoun is the preferred.