There are many people who like LOTR here, it's just that Harry Potter is more current at the moment. I personally like both

Nah, Valinor is more a kind of refuge. If you've read the appendix as well, which goes further than the novel, then you'll find that in the very end even Legolas and Gimli go to Valinor, as the last of the Fellowship. It's not so much an euphemism of their deaths, more like a kind of, well, paradise or something. But I personally think that Frodo lives there long enough to see Sam again, who goes over the sea some fifty years later, and dies there in peace.