hobnob(verb)"to have or not have"; to mingle or associate casually
These two rhyming syllables first came together in Shakespeare’s comedy Twelfth Night. Sir Toby Belch warns Viola, disguised as a male, that the foolish Sir Andrew Aguecheek seeks a duel. "Hob, nob, is his word," Sir Toby tells her; "give’t or take’t" (III.iv.240).
Shakespeare uses these terms together only once. They appear to be derived from the older hab nab, a phrase with the sense of "have or not have, however it may turn out." After Shakespeare’s initial use, hob and nob eventually became established in the expression "to drink hob or nob" or simply "to drink hobnob," which was used to mean "to drink alternately to each other." From such associations it’s easy to see how hobnob (in various forms) came to acquire strong connotations of close friendship or intimate fellowship, as when William Makepeace Thackeray used an adjectival variation in 1859: "I might be hob-and-nob with you now in your dungeon."
By 1763, hobnob was established in use as a verb meaning "to drink together," and by the 1820s, it gained the modern sense of "to be familiar with." Nowadays the term is most often seen in a phrase like "hobnobbing with high society," denoting a form of activity which, despite the Shakespearian origins of hobnob, has nothing to do with fighting duels.
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