Watching Kill Bill wasn't really okay with me, I wish I'd known beforehand. Several other Mom's weren't pleased, either. I have tried to screen movies before I give my kids a verdict on whether they can see them. Saw both Kill Bills and explained they were on the wait 'til your older list. My concern was mainly to do with the sexual scenes, Gogo in the bar and Kiddo in the hospital just after she came to. The violence was also a factor, but since you seem familiar with kids entertainment, you'll know it's difficult to keep kids from being exposed to it in cartoons, films or video games. They are not allowed to play "M" games and for "T" rated games, I get a rundown on why it has that rating, before they can rent it. Generally, the "T" is due to the gore content. Example, the Tony Hawks games. A player wipes out and sustains injuries. Not a bad thing, my kids will realize that if they try to do more than a fancy ollie, they could get hurt without safety gear on.
The ball will be paper mache with a plastic chain. Any flinging around and it will break, this should still any temptation to use it. She'll wear a wig and a bit of make up to be more Asian looking.
My kids correct me all the time about my pronunciation and spelling of Inuyasha. At least I know the difference between Kagome and Kikyo. I know some anime is not for kids, again I try to do my homework before letting them watch a film, or, read a manga. I know the difference between hentai and ecchi content and yaoi anime/manga, both kids know, are big no-no.
How did she deal with "sit"? She was a good sport and sat. In fact, there were about a dozen Inuyasha demon- dogs and my human Inuyasha having their picture taken. A girl in a Kagome costume yelled "Sit, boy!" and down they all went, giggling like mad.
I wish the days of dressing them up in cute costumes wasn't over. They're growing up so fast. All I can do is keep myself involved and aware of what is going on with them.
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Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue.