Perhaps the best object lesson to be gained from Mel Gibson's ordeal is about how to deal with denial, and the consquences of not dealing with it. His arrest and behavior raises a great many general issues, about a great many things, which is really what makes it worthwhile, and interesting, as a topic of discussion.
Of all these issues, the anti-Semitic rant was merely the most sensational. And it should give all of us pause to think about the issue of anti-Semitism, where it comes from, why it is still flourishing, why we might attempt to rationalize or deny it, and what we can do about it.
Gibson's second apology, while considerably better than the first, implicitly acknowledges that his statements were anti-Semitic, but then includes his rather paradoxical comment that, "I am not an anti-Semite. I am not a bigot. Hatred of any kind goes against my faith". Well, talk about denial.
Just because Mr Gibson, when sober, acts nicely toward Jews, and does not speak ill of them, does not mean that he isn't anti-Semitic if, in his heart, he harbors mistrust or hatred or resentment of Jews. One who holds anti-Semitic attitudes (buried or not) is anti-Semitic, regardless of whatever polite social behavior they display. Many of us are probably far more prejudiced in our hearts, toward various groups, than we would openly like to admit. But, once the truth pops out, and bites us on the nose, we'd best face it, if we really want to cleanse our souls. What prejudices do each of us secretly hold, but would rather not publicly admit? A lot of people now throwing stones at Gibson should be examining the dark corners of their own hearts. If that were to happen, we'd all become more accepting and better people.
And Gibson raises the issue of his faith, claiming it is at odds with anti-Semitic beliefs. Is that really true? Just what is Gibson's "faith"? He adheres to "Traditionalist Catholic" beliefs and, like his father, belongs to a sect which is not part of mainstream Catholicism. These are not people who simply prefer to hear the Mass in Latin. Among other things, Gibson believes that only Catholics will go to heaven. He has publicly said he believes that members of all other faiths, and all non-Catholic Christians (including his Anglican wife), will be going to hell.
With the proceeds from "The Passion", Gibson has built his own church--The Church of The Holy Family--which is not part of any Catholic archdiocese, and which is not recognized by the Vatican as a Catholic church. Gibson is not a conservative Catholic, he is a Traditionalist Catholic, which is quite a different matter. And, because this is an affiliation (and affinity) he at least partly shares with his father, Gibson has always been suspected of anti-Semitism because of his father's anti-Semitic religious beliefs. That's why a lot of people were shocked, but not really surprised, by Gibson's comments about Jews last week. It has a lot to do with his father, and a lot to do with some Traditionalist Catholic views.
That the modern Catholic church has tried to diminish anti-Semitism is not something that sits well with Gibson's father. Hutton Gibson is a Sedevacantist (a form of Traditionalist Catholicism), although his ideas are rejected by many in the Traditionalist Catholic community. He believes that the Second Vatican Council introduced heretical doctrines into the Catholic Church, and he believes that every Pope elected since Pope John XXIII, including Pope John Paul II (whom he referred to as "Garrulous Karolus the Koran Kisser"), have been illegitimate anti-popes. He has also stated that the Second Vatican Council was the result of a secret anti-Catholic plot orchestrated by both Masons and Jews, and he believes that Jewish conspiracies have infiltrated the Catholic church with the intention of overthrowing the Church in order to achieve world domination with their one religion.
This craziness goes way beyond animosity toward Jews. It's plain paranoid and delusional. Hutton Gibson is far more than just a Holocaust denier. He apparently has nothing but hatred and contempt for Jews.
web page He feels (among other things) that the Jews are trying to destroy the Catholic church. But Mel Gibson will not publicly criticize his father. He claims to do so would be to violate the commandment to Honor Thy Father. Sorry, that's more denial. One can love and honor one's father and still disagree with his views, particularly if they are at odds with one's own faith and beliefs. But, because Gibson doesn't make it clear where (or if) his views part company with those of his father, suspicions about his own anti-Semitism were rampant long before his outburst last week. They were part and parcel of the concern about "The Passion" prior to it's release. Mel Gibson apparently intends to build a second Traditionalist Catholic church in Pennsylvania, apparently with some involvement by his father. What message is going to come from the pulpit of these churches? Isn't that something that moviegoers should think about when they buy tickets to Gibson's films or rent his DVDs? Is this where their money will be going?
While it might not be fair to ascribe the sins of the father to the son, what happened last week confirmed for many people that where there's smoke, there's fire. And Mel Gibson has always made his "faith" a public issue through his own statements.
Gibson's comments last week suggested that he has absorbed more of his old man's ideas and attitudes than he might be willing to admit, even to himself. He might even rationalize them as simply being part of his "faith". More denial. Perhaps what happened to him last week will be a wake-up call--both in terms of his drinking and his beliefs.
I sincerely hope Mel Gibson does open his mind and really search his soul. I think he could actually wind up doing a lot of good in terms of enlightening others, if he can first enlighten himself. People can see the light. People can change. The day he publicly disagrees with his father's thinking, and the type of distrust and hatred that it represents and breeds, I might really believe that's happened. If he doesn't publicly distance himself from his father's views, I doubt that he'll ever be able to shake the anti-Semitic accusations.
So, I think this case also raises all kinds of issues about family loyalty, family values, and the influence of religious beliefs in fomenting and maintaining prejudices. It also raises issues (once again) about the police giving preferential treatment to celebrities, the scourge of alcoholism, and the menace of irresponsible drunk driving. It's not just about Gibson, it's about a lot of societal values. The anti-Semitism issue was merely the most jarring and sensational component, partly because it was so unexpected in the context of a drunk driving arrest. But it didn't come out of the blue. And it didn't surprise many people.