Just goes to show how the world is very much the same, Delboy! It has become that way here as well... I do want children protected from true abusiveness... but I think that the "strict upbringing" that I had, where the "rod was not spared" had a great deal to do with the person I've become, and the principles to which I hold myself to... My children are grown, but when they were young, they certainly understood what a spanking was about... but as they grew older, I didn't find it necessary. I think you really need to "grab their attention" when they are very young to have any control in later ages, or so it seemed for me. I have a very good relationship with my boys now, and I feel they've turned out to be very good human beings as well... If they'd never learned to respect my authority, I think they would have been easily swayed by peer pressure, and more negative impacts from society. As it is, they are decent young men, never went through the "teenage angst" stage, with a good work ethic, and a strong sense of morality. I'm not saying that it is the ONLY way to raise children, but that is how it worked out for me.
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