Hello Dave1968 and welcome

Have ISP employees be tricked over the phone into looking up records and giving information about who was assigned a particular IP address at a given time? I haven't heard of cases where Court Orders issued by an appropriate authority have been bypassed.
I must have looked into many forums over the years while searching for bits of information. I'm a member of some. None reveal IP addresses to members or passers by. It is true that a forum's Admin has access to the IP addresses but then so do the server logs of all the sites we visit.
An IP address is no secret and we have to accept that or not use the Internet. What can be discovered from this alone anyway? Only an approximate whereabouts in the world, browser type and operating system. Having used the Internet for around eleven years now, I can only say this hasn't proved harmful to me so far.
As said, more idea of where we live can be gained one way or another from what we say about ourselves. Whether that matters is up to the individual to decide. You have to ask yourself what the likelihood is of anyone bothering to find your street address anyway? I believe cases of unwelcome visitors from the Internet are pretty rare. I've only heard of one and I don't think the IP address played a part in the tracking.
E-mails are different since they are sent/received from one individual to another. IP information can be discovered in the e-mail headers. Therefore it may be possible to track an email's path across the Internet and tie its origin to an area. In the case mentioned, this had to be tied to other factors in order to find a street address.
Some use the Internet via a proxy server to hide their true IP address. Maybe there are those who have something to hide but I think proxy servers are mostly used because of the worrying talk about IP addresses and the 'Big Brother' situation. The average Internet user need not worry about this in my opinion.
Perhaps the Internet isn't a totally private place but information given via our Internet Browsers doesn't seem much when compared to the amount of information stored on various databases as part of everyday life (medical - dental - tax - government - local government etc etc). There are organisations/businesses that know a quite a bit about us ..all information being tied to names and addresses. We accept this and don't worry about it. So why worry about the limited information that might be gained from our Internet habits?
Edit: Typo