#430427 - Sun Jul 13 2008 02:17 PM
Not a Spokesperson for My Race
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I was in class the other day, which consisted of almost all Caucasian students. There was one African-American (let's call her "Jane") and one Chinese student. Anyway, the course is on World Multiculturalism. We were discussing a topic, when a student in the class asked Jane: "Do African American people think such and such...?" After class Jane said to me, "I hate it when I'm supposed to be the spokesperson for my race. No one would ask you, 'Paige, do white people such-and-such?" It reminded me of when a friend of mine in college found out that one of our acquaintances was gay. "Oh, do you know John? He's gay too." Why do people say these things? 
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#430428 - Sun Jul 13 2008 04:02 PM
Re: Not a Spokesperson for My Race
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That's a little like one of the standing jokes around here..."I hear what's his name is from Ohio, too. You know him, don't you?"  I like to believe most people aren't trying to be boorish or mean -they just don't think before they speak, Pagiedamon. That's what I prefer to think, anyway...
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#430429 - Sun Jul 13 2008 05:01 PM
Re: Not a Spokesperson for My Race
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I like to believe most people aren't trying to be boorish or mean -they just don't think before they speak, Pagiedamon. That's what I prefer to think, anyway...
You are absolutely correct. I'm sure most of the time the person is just letting the comment innocently slip from his/her lips, but it can be mortifying for any listeners in the vicinty!
Of course, I've been known to put my foot in mouth too...:-)
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#430430 - Wed Jul 16 2008 03:43 PM
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In a multicultural class where there is only one person present from a particular ethnic group, I fail to see where the person asking the question is being derogatory in any way. Don't you think her interest came from the class subject? Of course, I don't know what the question was or the way in which it was asked, and that could make a difference.
Though I've never been asked what white people think about something, I have been asked what folks in the South think or believe; I have had to be spokesperson for my church; spokesperson for 'hillbillies' since I grew up in the North Georgia mountains (truly I have been asked what mountain people do or think, etc.). We all get a "chip on our shoulder" about certain things from time to time, but we need to realize that folks usually ask because they care and are truly interested.
That's what I think anyway.....
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#430432 - Tue Jul 22 2008 01:32 AM
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I've been asked what i as an Australian and as presumably a western thought about all sorts of things, at no point have I considered this offensive.
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#430433 - Wed Jul 23 2008 12:20 AM
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I too am asked as a Noongar person (indigenous person of the south west of Western Australia) what Noongars think about various things. My response is that I personally think such and such - but that is not necessarily a community view. I don't feel offended by it, but I am guessing your friend is quite young, and I think it would have embarrassed me majorly forty years ago.
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#430437 - Thu Jul 24 2008 06:03 AM
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You can not speak for your group but you almost certainly will have a better idea of the general concensus among your group than other people and I suppose that is what people mean when they ask 'what do you Xs think about Y'
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#430438 - Thu Jul 24 2008 06:09 AM
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You can not speak for your group but you almost certainly will have a better idea of the general concensus among your group than other people and I suppose that is what people mean when they ask 'what do you Xs think about Y'
Yes, I can't argue with you there. :-)
By the way, the story about my "Indian" friend actually occurred in a multicultural literature class, NOT the world class I was originally talking about.
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#430439 - Fri Sep 26 2008 11:59 AM
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I belive that when there is a visible ethnic majority, those people tend to picture all of the "others" as the only manifestation of the foreign culture. Im sure that the ethnic majority do not try to be mean or insulting, only that they want insight from someone (Jane) who is more likely to have a proper understanding of a certain culture.
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