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#490933 - Mon Aug 17 2009 02:59 AM New guy here!!
mr jj Offline
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Registered: Mon Aug 17 2009
Posts: 132
Loc: Milwaukee Wisconsin USA       
Hello posters, my name is Ken. I have been looking around for a site to just "hang out" at. I think this is it. Later, Ken

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#490934 - Mon Aug 17 2009 04:25 AM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Fri Jul 11 2008
Posts: 20
Loc: East Cowes Isle of Wight UK
Hi Ken, I'm sure you'll enjoy hanging out here.

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#490935 - Mon Aug 17 2009 05:14 AM Re: New guy here!!
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Loc: Lancashire England UK
Welcome Ken!
If you're like me you'll wish you'd found the site earlier but will be glad to be here now
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#490936 - Mon Aug 17 2009 07:52 AM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Fri May 18 2001
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Hi new guy! Welcome !
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#490937 - Mon Aug 17 2009 10:53 AM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Sat May 03 2008
Posts: 17092
Loc: Orosi Costa Rica              
Hello Ken, welcome to the best site to hang out at!
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#490938 - Mon Aug 17 2009 01:04 PM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Mon Aug 13 2007
Posts: 14748
Loc: Mijas, Malaga Spain         
Hello and welcome from Spain, I am sure you will enjoy it around here

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#490939 - Mon Aug 17 2009 01:42 PM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Wed Oct 17 2001
Posts: 8479
Loc: Hastings Sussex
England UK
Welcome to the forums, Ken. I hope you enjoy it here.
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#490940 - Mon Aug 17 2009 03:09 PM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Fri Apr 25 2008
Posts: 13908
Loc: Georgia USA
Welcome Ken! This truly is a good place to just 'hang out' in spare moments. Hope you enjoy the variety.
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#490941 - Mon Aug 17 2009 07:26 PM Re: New guy here!!
mr jj Offline
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Posts: 132
Loc: Milwaukee Wisconsin USA       
Thanks guys. What I like about it here, is the huge variety. You're not stuck with just ONE topic. Ken
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#490942 - Tue Aug 18 2009 01:34 PM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Sat Jul 14 2007
Posts: 5426
Loc: Wisconsin USA
Hi, Ken! Welcome to the forums, fellow Wisconsinite!
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#490943 - Tue Aug 18 2009 01:57 PM Re: New guy here!!
postcards2go Offline
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Registered: Thu Nov 20 2008
Posts: 1314
Loc: New York City USA
Hi Ken

It's a great place to hang out. It's hard to get bored around here, there's so much to do.
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#490944 - Tue Aug 18 2009 08:05 PM Re: New guy here!!
mr jj Offline
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Registered: Mon Aug 17 2009
Posts: 132
Loc: Milwaukee Wisconsin USA       
Question, just so I know for future reference >>> Does "too heated" mean, not agreed with? Being polite (and no bad language) is one thing but is this a forum where we all sing the same tune or else? Ken
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#490945 - Wed Aug 19 2009 02:03 AM Re: New guy here!!
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Question, just so I know for future reference >>> Does "too heated" mean, not agreed with? Being polite (and no bad language) is one thing but is this a forum where we all sing the same tune or else? Ken




We don't 'do controversy' per se so in theory that doesn't arise, or ought not. We won't tolerate personal attacks nor people deliberately trying to stir up an argument. If you wish to have a heated discussion then this isn't the site you need to be posting on, there are plenty of sites where you can be as heated as you like.
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#490946 - Wed Aug 19 2009 02:36 AM Re: New guy here!!
mr jj Offline
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Registered: Mon Aug 17 2009
Posts: 132
Loc: Milwaukee Wisconsin USA       
Thats what I'm saying. For example,10 posters are talking about 'whatever' and I dont agree. Even if being POLITE, I should NOT post under that thread? If no, does that mean I can start my own thread with the opposite view? I agree, no one should try and deliberately cause a problem. Basically....no free thought allowed? By definition, that does not sound like a forum. Ken


Edited by mr jj (Wed Aug 19 2009 07:22 AM)
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#490947 - Wed Aug 19 2009 10:13 AM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Sat Jul 14 2007
Posts: 5426
Loc: Wisconsin USA
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Thats what I'm saying. For example,10 posters are talking about 'whatever' and I dont agree. Even if being POLITE, I should NOT post under that thread? If no, does that mean I can start my own thread with the opposite view? I agree, no one should try and deliberately cause a problem. Basically....no free thought allowed? By definition, that does not sound like a forum. Ken




I wouldn't say that, by any means, we all agree about everything. What is being said is that there are ways to disagree, or have a different view or opinion, without attacking another poster.
For instance, we don't ever say things like; Wow, (insert name) what you said is really stupid. Or, Hey, (so-and-so) why don't you go get yourself a clue.
You don't have to agree with the previous poster, but you don't have to treat them badly to do so. Also, stay away from more controversial issues. Religion is one that I can think of, that always produces very strong feelings, and should probably be avoided in general.

re·spect (r-spkt)
tr.v. re·spect·ed, re·spect·ing, re·spects
1. To feel or show deferential regard for; esteem.
2. To avoid violation of or interference with
3. To relate or refer to; concern.
n.
1. A feeling of appreciative, often deferential regard; esteem.
2. The state of being regarded with honor or esteem.
3. Willingness to show consideration or appreciation.
4. respects Polite expressions of concideration or difference

That should about clear it up.
No, we aren't mindless zombies who happen to agree with each other about everything. We just have utmost respect for one another.
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#490948 - Wed Aug 19 2009 02:03 PM Re: New guy here!!
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Registered: Sun Dec 19 1999
Posts: 38005
Loc: Jersey
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To be honest if you are just looking for forums for heavy or serious discussion and not looking for the quiz package then perhaps this isn't necessarily the correct site for you. Most of the forum members also play quizzes and games on the main site and many write quizzes too. Many of the members from the main site don't use the forums at all, preferring to use the chat boards instead - controversy is not encouraged there either.


Edited by sue943 (Tue Aug 25 2009 02:22 AM)
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#490949 - Wed Aug 19 2009 04:35 PM Re: New guy here!!
mr jj Offline
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Registered: Mon Aug 17 2009
Posts: 132
Loc: Milwaukee Wisconsin USA       
That all makes sense. Ken
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