The main place that music helps me is in the car. Say, I have a Pat Metheny tape actually with the rainstorm..that I love and then the next song is a good steering wheel tapping rhythm.
Herb Ellis is a wonderful man, I got to play with him on stage at a jazz festival with my ensemble and he didn't treat us like punk kids or anything. (he sure could have!)
I actually cannot stand classical music at work for more than a half hour tops.
But as to the aggression, I wonder if they specified what they played.
I personally find the new age stuff a little unnerving!
I mean, after about 15 minutes I feel like eating red meat or listening to Creedence Clearwater or something real.
I might actually prefer techno! Nope...I will prefer flipper the dolphin any day to that.
When I worked in a small kind of organic type restaurant many years ago, they told us never to let the music stop because it was so quiet and you heard people talking and the silverware noises. It was like keeping a fire burning.
Malizma sounds like the principles of homeopathic medicine, you give something to someone that would create the reaction you want. You fight fire with fire.