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#94738 - Mon Apr 08 2002 05:50 AM Death of a Father
tjoebigham Offline
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Yesterday, my father, Harvey George Bigham, lost his life to the heart condition he struggled with for so long. He died suddenly the morning of his 46th anniversary with my still living mother. He will be buried this Wednesday.

Goodbye, Dad. We'll miss you.

Has anybody else lost a loved one over the weekend?

tjoeb}:>...

[ 04-08-2002, 06:51 AM: Message edited by: tjoebigham ]
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#94739 - Mon Apr 08 2002 05:52 AM Re: Death of a Father
Sypher Offline
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I'm sorry to read about your loss and the only words I can say in these cicumstances are....' I wish you and your family a long life'
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#94740 - Mon Apr 08 2002 06:13 AM Re: Death of a Father
Copago Offline
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Terry, I am so sorry for your loss, hope you, your Mum and rest of your family are coping okay.

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#94741 - Mon Apr 08 2002 07:42 AM Re: Death of a Father
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Terry, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that the memory of your father's love and his life will be of comfort to you and your family.
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#94742 - Mon Apr 08 2002 02:25 PM Re: Death of a Father
Coral Offline
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Terry this really is sad news. But what a fantastic achievement of 46 years of marriage - that alone speaks volumes.

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#94743 - Mon Apr 08 2002 04:29 PM Re: Death of a Father
allynellie Offline
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dear tjoebigham

i am so sorry for your loss - and your family's loss too. with your reference to him having struggled for so long with a heart condition, he sounds like a strong man.

your family and you will be in my thoughts, i will send you all my love in my next meditation

big hugs and lots of love allynellie
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#94744 - Mon Apr 08 2002 07:28 PM Re: Death of a Father
vikan Offline
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tjoebigham; Your father is at peace now, my thoughts are with you, your mother and family.
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#94745 - Mon Apr 08 2002 07:45 PM Re: Death of a Father
lefois Offline
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Registered: Fri Feb 01 2002
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Loc: Kitimat BC 
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I add my sentiments to those of our little "family" here.

Remember the wonderful times you had together and share them with those around you. It is very helpful to have a little smile here and there, too.

He will be alive within you, forever, and that can't be taken away. I will think of you and yours.

~Lea

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#94746 - Mon Apr 08 2002 11:21 PM Re: Death of a Father
gtho4 Offline
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Registered: Sun Dec 26 1999
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mate, I'm sorry to hear of your loss .. in Greek we say zoi se sas, which translates as 'long life to you and your family'
from downhere,
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#94747 - Tue Apr 09 2002 05:59 AM Re: Death of a Father
gillyharold Offline
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Registered: Thu Sep 30 1999
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My heartfelt condolences Terry, may God be with you and your family in your time of sorrow.

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#94748 - Tue Apr 09 2002 06:47 PM Re: Death of a Father
sue943 Offline
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I'm sorry Terry, take care
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#94749 - Wed Apr 10 2002 07:01 AM Re: Death of a Father
PurpleFan Offline
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Please accept my sincerest condolences on the passing of your Father!
Purple Fan (Bonnie)
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#94750 - Wed Apr 10 2002 08:38 AM Re: Death of a Father
CellarDoor Offline
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Terry, I too am sorry to hear about your loss. Please take good care of yourself and your family in this difficult time, and know that we're all thinking of you.
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#94751 - Wed Apr 10 2002 12:51 PM Re: Death of a Father
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[Frown] Terry, I am so sorry for your loss...truly. I share deeply in your sorrow. This week Runningbear and myself also lost a loved one from heart failure. On April 1st my sister's husband John Phillips died suddenly and tragically at the young age of 42. I thank you for sharing of your sorrow in this forum, I didn't know how to express our grief and it helps to learn of your terrible loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
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#94752 - Wed Apr 10 2002 01:17 PM Re: Death of a Father
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Terry, Whitedove and Runningbear - my thoughts are with you at this sad time.
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#94753 - Sat Apr 13 2002 12:24 PM Re: Death of a Father
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I am sorry to hear that your father passed away. You are so fortunate to have had the love of your father for all those years and so many good memories to fall back on. When I read your post, it reminded me that a lot of people (like myself) are not close to their parents at all due to many different reasons, or don't even know who their parents are. I would give a lot to feel what you are feeling right now, because that would mean that a treasured love has been lost. Take care of yourself and look out for your mom at this sorrowful time. Think of the good things you shared with your dad and that will keep him alive in your heart.
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