I'm dating this guy and all but I still got a lot of feelings for my ex!! Me and My boyfriend harddly talk anymore!! He's usally over at his friend's house play music or out some place else!! So me and my ex have been talking and all the feelings keep coming back!! I don't know what to do!!!

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Hi blackfire and welcome my head always tells me one thing and my heart another. it's like an internal war... my best advice is to follow your feelings.

Hello and a big warm FunTrivia welcome Blackfire. I believe that you have to follow your heart. Love is giving and sharing and if your ex wants to be around you then he must care about you in some fashion. Don't be scared of your feeling, but do take your time and weigh things out in your heart before you make a decision. The most important thing is what you want... not what anyone else wants, so be true to yourself and enjoy all the attention.

Say goodbye to both men. Take some time away from relationships, figure yourself out. Do not involve other people in your emotional turmoil, that is unfair and self-involved. You have plenty of time to figure out who you want.

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"Lately, the only thing keeping me from being a serial killer is my distaste for manual labor." --Dilbert

blackfire,

I have to agree with Callie.

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You have plenty of time to figure out who you want.

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From a geezers standpoint, looking back on my high school experience, I can offer you the following advice.

Be friends with everybody! There's nothing wrong with dating several guys as friends. (I'm not saying you are, but this doesn't mean sleeping around) There's a lot going on in your life right now and it means a lot to your future. Study hard and get good grades so you can go to college! Your chances of getting anything more than a minimum wage job without at leastsome college is dim.

Listen to the Bunny. I'd also ask you to remember why you and your ex broke up. We do tend to remember the good times, especially if he's being attentative now while your present BF seems to be taking you for granted.

Mind you, being part of a couple doesn't mean being joined at the hip. It's good that your BF spends time with his friends and I hope you're spending time with yours. We all need our friends for the good ones will be around a lot longer than any BF!

We don't have to be part of a couple to be complete. Step back, be friends with both of them, if possible, and then make friends with yourself.

Good luck!