Judah was son number
of the partnership between Jacob and
. He married the daughter of a Canaanite man whose name was
. Judah's wife would give birth to
sons.
Judah found
as a wife for his firstborn son
. However, in the eyes of the Lord, this son had been wicked and God struck him down. As there was no child born to this marriage, Judah instructed his second son,
, to act as a surrogate and to ensure that a pregnancy occurred. This would have put the second son at a financial disadvantage. As the son did not wish to be in this position, he interrupted coitus by spilling his semen on the ground. Not a good move... the Lord saw this as an evil deed, and he struck him down as well.
At this point Judah's daughter-in-law should now be betrothed to
, Judah's third son, but he is not of age. Judah has also become protective of his remaining son and heir, so he promised his son to his daughter-in-law when he did come of age. This was a vow he did not intend to keep. His daughter-in-law returned to
and to stay in her father's house, while she waited for her husband to be.
Years later, Judah's wife has died and he headed to the town where his daughter-in-law now resided to see a man about shearing his sheep. Hearing of his arrival and aware that Judah had reneged on his promise of a husband, the daughter-in-law disguised herself in different clothes and covering her face with veils. On meeting Judah, who did not recognize her, she sought to sleep with him. He agreed and pledged a
to her. She, however, asked for surety and he provided, among other things, his
.
After the deed, the daughter-in-law returned home and discarded her disguise. Three months later Judah hears that his daughter-in-law is pregnant, calls her a prostitute and sentences her to be burned to death. She responds by producing the three items he'd given her and declares that she is with child by the man who gave these to her. Embarrassment for Judah, as he recognized his own property. To his credit, Judah owned up to his mistake and declared "she is more righteous than I, as I wouldn't give her my son." (Genesis 38:26 NIV).